For years, my love life followed one painful pattern. Every man I truly desired was emotionally unavailable. Either he was still in love with his ex, secretly committed to someone else, or simply obsessed with another woman who barely noticed him. I always seemed to arrive at the wrong time, loving the wrong person.
At first, I convinced myself it was coincidence. Maybe I had bad timing. Maybe I just had “expensive taste.” But when it happened the fourth and fifth time, the pattern became impossible to ignore. I would meet someone charming and promising. We would connect deeply.…CONTINUE READING
