A man from western Kenya has shared a personal account of how his once failing relationship took an unexpected turn after months of strain, silence, and emotional distance that had left both partners frustrated and close to separation.

At breaking point

He said the relationship had reached a critical stage, marked by constant disagreements and a growing lack of trust. “We were no longer communicating. Every conversation ended in an argument,” he said. Friends and family had advised counselling, but repeated attempts brought no lasting change. According to the man, the pressure began affecting his work and mental wellbeing, forcing him to seek alternatives he had previously dismissed.

After careful thought, he decided to consult DR Kashiririka, a traditional spiritual specialist widely known for handling love and relationship matters. The man said his decision was driven by desperation rather than belief. “I had nothing to lose. I just wanted peace and understanding between us,” he said.

Within days, he noticed subtle but consistent changes in his partner’s behaviour. He said tension eased, conversations became calmer, and issues that once sparked heated arguments were discussed openly. “It felt like we were reconnecting emotionally. The anger and bitterness faded,” he said.

Sudden change

The man explained that the improvement felt natural, not forced, which surprised him. He said his partner became more attentive and willing to resolve misunderstandings. “We started laughing again. That had been missing for a long time,” he said, adding that the relationship now feels stable and respectful.

His partner, who spoke on condition of anonymity, confirmed the change, saying she could not clearly explain what influenced the shift. “I just felt the need to fix things and protect what we had built,” she said.

DR Kashiririka said many relationships collapse due to unresolved emotional conflicts that grow over time. “Love weakens when understanding is lost. My role is to restore balance so couples can reconnect,” he said. He added that his approach focuses on harmony rather than control.

Relationship experts note that prolonged conflict often pushes couples to explore unconventional solutions, especially when counselling fails to deliver quick results. While opinions on spiritual practices differ, such testimonies continue to attract attention from couples seeking reconciliation.

The man said his experience changed his perspective on relationships and seeking help. “When you value someone, you do everything possible to save what you have,” he said. He added that he hopes other struggling couples consider early intervention before conflicts become irreversible.