A married man from western Kenya has opened up about a painful moment that unfolded in his home after months of suspicion, tension, and unanswered questions that had slowly eroded trust in his marriage.

Doubt and silence

He said the problems began with sudden changes in behaviour. “She became secretive, easily irritated, and distant,” he said. Attempts to talk things out only made matters worse, with frequent denials and accusations of mistrust. Friends advised him to ignore the signs, but the uncertainty continued to weigh heavily on him.

The man said he did not want confrontation or drama, only clarity. After speaking to a close friend, he decided to consult DR Kashiririka, a herbal and traditional service provider known for handling faithfulness related matters. “I wanted the truth, not excuses. I needed peace,” he said.

According to him, things changed unexpectedly within a short period. He said his wife became restless and unusually emotional. One evening, she asked to talk and broke down in tears. “She told me everything without me pushing her. I was shocked,” he said.

Truth comes out

The woman confessed to having an affair that had lasted several months. “I could not hide it anymore. My heart was heavy,” she said, adding that guilt had been eating away at her. She said the confession was not planned but felt unavoidable.

DR Kashiririka said honesty often surfaces when spiritual balance is restored. “When lies block peace, truth must come out for healing to begin,” he said. He added that faithfulness charms are meant to expose deception, not to destroy families.

Family mediators note that unresolved suspicion often damages relationships more deeply than the truth itself. While views on traditional intervention differ, such testimonies continue to spark discussion among couples facing trust issues.

The man said although the confession was painful, it brought relief. “At least now I know what I am dealing with. Living in doubt was worse,” he said. He added that the couple has since begun open discussions about forgiveness and the future of their marriage.

The woman said she regrets her actions and hopes to rebuild trust. “I know I hurt him. I want to make things right,” she said.

The man urged others facing similar situations not to ignore persistent doubt. “Truth may hurt, but it gives you a chance to decide your next step,” he said, noting that honesty is the first step towards healing.