A young woman from eastern Kenya has shared how her long search for a stable relationship finally came to an end after years of disappointment, heartbreak, and repeated failed connections that left her emotionally drained.

Years of frustration

She said she had tried dating seriously but every promising relationship ended abruptly without clear reasons. “Men would be interested, then suddenly disappear or change completely,” she said. Friends often told her to be patient, but the repeated pattern left her doubting herself and her future.

After opening up to a colleague at work, she was advised to visit DR Kashiririka, a herbal and traditional service provider known for handling love related matters. The woman said she was hesitant at first, fearing judgement, but desperation pushed her to seek help. “I just wanted to understand why love never stayed in my life,” she said.

She explained that after the consultation, she focused on personal calm and clarity as advised. Within a short time, she met a man through a mutual friend, and unlike previous experiences, the connection felt steady and respectful. “There was no confusion, no mixed signals. Everything flowed naturally,” she said.

A different connection

The woman said what surprised her most was the consistency. She noted that communication remained open and intentions were clear from the beginning. “For the first time, I felt chosen and secure,” she said. The man later introduced her to his family, something she described as a sign of serious commitment.

Speaking about the case, DR Kashiririka said many people struggle with unseen emotional blocks that affect relationships. “Some hearts want love, but negative patterns keep repeating. When balance is restored, the right person appears,” he said.

The man involved confirmed the relationship felt natural and unforced. “I felt drawn to her honesty and calm energy. Everything felt right from the start,” he said, adding that his intentions were genuine.

Relationship observers say many young people face repeated disappointment in modern dating due to mistrust and unclear intentions. While views on traditional practices differ, such testimonies continue to spark discussion among those seeking meaningful relationships.

The woman said her experience taught her patience and self belief. “Love should not feel like a battle. When it is right, it feels peaceful,” she said. She added that she now encourages others not to lose hope even after repeated setbacks.

She concluded by saying that her story is not about forcing love, but about removing what blocks it. “When the right door opens, you just know,” she said.